Iron Sharpens Iron

A Vehicle for Change

By Eric Warren 

I am a recent graduate of The University of Tennessee.  I studied Communication Studies and, because of my area of study, a good chunk of my grades came from group projects and presentations.  I love my school and my area of study, but one aspect of my major that quickly poked and prodded me into discomfort was this notion that I was not only accountable to my own successes and failures, but also to those of my group mates.  I could no longer do work into the wee hours of the morning, I had to have my work ready and available to my team so that they could be on the same page, contribute, and correct when necessary.  However, looking back on my experiences, I see the merit in being prodded so.
LIFE Groups are made available to bring about change in our daily lives.  Through community and friends, lives are changed as we walk together and stride hand in hand toward Christlikeness.  As you very well know, as we share life together in these small group settings, we grow intimately together.  We come out of the darkness and step more and more into the light and sometimes that light exposes parts of our lives that we once wished to keep stowed away in secret.  But, the beauty of LIFE Group is that these communities provide areas of safety in which we all can come in, participate, and know that those around us care only for us to be more like Christ that day than we were the day before.  So, while being poked and prodded is initially uncomfortable, while it may hurt at times, we all know that it is only to our benefit to have these areas of life that are out of alignment brought back into the straight and narrow that points to Christ.

 17 Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.                         Proverbs 27:17

 So often we find ourselves in “defense mode,” putting up a front in hopes of others not being able to catch a glimpse of who we really are inside.  This happens in the work world, around other friend groups, even among families.  The beauty of LIFE Groups is the safe environment provided to plumb the depths of life’s issues, the curveballs thrown our way on an all too regular basis.  This is all stuff that you already know.  We as a church want you to help us through prayer in sparking desire throughout everyone hungering for such interaction.  We want you to help us pray that a fire be lit in the hearts of many as they yearn to do real life with others.  We want you to pray for a need to be revealed among the unreached to dive in and bring their lives out into the light, so that parts of life that are out of alignment may be shaped, chiseled and polished more and more towards Christlikeness.  We want you to pray that the revelation be opened up to Group Seekers that this life is not meant to be done alone, and that is what we are here for.  So again, we invite you to relentlessly pray along with us for those who are desperately in need of a community to do life with.
Things to Pray for:

  • For the unreached to not be satisfied with the status quo.
  • That they would desire real life, real conversation, and real relationships.
  • That despite the difficulty of making oneself vulnerable, they see the immense benefit in being real with one another.

 
 
 

HOW I CHANGED MY APPROACH TO RUNNING (AND LIFE)

by Roger Severino
Photo credit: Joe Hendricks
Roger Severino, Adult Discipleship – Leadership Minister

Several years ago I went running with my friend Matt and afterwards he made a comment. “You have an interesting way of running. You go at a moderate speed when it is flat or downhill [his way of saying I was slow], but you kick it into gear when you face a hill.”
That strategy made sense to me. When the road is flat or downhill, conserve your energy, because you are going to need it when you face that incline.
It’s interesting, as I began to get better —mainly through doing some speed interval training and developing my dormant fast twitch muscles— my approach to running changed. And I probably enjoyed it more. I tried to take advantage of the natural contours and run faster on flat or downhill surfaces, and adjusted my pace and slowed down when going up a hill.
As I reflect on that change in strategy, I think it is also a metaphor for my approach to life over time. Much of my life I have lived with a defensive posture waiting for the other shoe to drop as it inevitably does. I have been a stoic who has been slow to enjoy the smooth paths of life because I needed to be prepared for the next mountain I might face. Call it my coping strategy.
Slowly, I have learned to live a different way. The old way is primarily based on fear. Fear of the future and fear that I won’t have what it takes when the bottom drops. Fear is overcome when I feel secure in God and His love for me. 1 John tells us: “There is no fear in love; instead, perfect love drives out fear, because fear involves punishment. So the one who fears has not reached perfection in love. We love because He first loved us. “ The psalmists were far from taking the stoical approach to life. They trusted God enough to bring their full range of emotions to Him, believing that He was sufficient to be their Rock and Helper in times of crises.
Jesus said He has come to give us abundant life (see John 10:10). So, I am learning to enjoy the smooth roads of frequent blessings that I find in my life. I am allowing my pace to enjoy those natural contours of joy and thanksgiving. And the uphill battles? I am learning to believe that God will be enough when I face the inevitable trials of life.
Meanwhile . . . I’ll keep enjoying the journey.